The Power of Parenting
Being a parent is the single most important job you will ever have. Whether you’re a stay at home mom or dad or work outside the home, there is no one else in the world that has the power to influence your child as much as you do. Parenting isn’t for the faint of heart; it takes tremendous dedication and selflessness to devote your life to raising a healthy, well-adjusted child ready to impact the world for good.
As a mom, you have a special, innate connection with your child. Whether you gave birth, adopted, or are fostering them, the bond you share is incredibly beautiful and goes deeper than any other relationship they have. Children need their mothers; from the very beginning, you nurture and protect them; it’s you they go to when they’re sick or scared because they trust you will make everything better. And you do.
Even when you can’t change the situation, you provide immense comfort and reassurance, allowing them to let down their guard and feel loved. But some days are hard. There are inevitably times when you are overwhelmed and don’t feel up to the challenge, and that’s ok. After all, you’re only human! That’s when taking a step back and focusing on self-care is vital.
Maybe you take a bubble bath, read a book, go on a walk, or even eat a candy bar; giving yourself the grace to realize you need a time out of your own is ok! Taking a moment to decompress and reset recharges your battery and helps you go back to being a super mom. What does a super mom look like? Well, super moms come in all shapes and sizes, from different backgrounds and upbringings. Their homes aren’t always spotless, but their kids are loved beyond measure. Super moms know they aren’t perfect but understand there is beauty in their imperfections.
To fully understand what a super mom looks like, you simply need to look in a mirror because it’s you. You are your family’s superhero. Day in and out, you make the sacrifices necessary to ensure your children have a bright future and they know how deeply loved they truly are. You don’t have to live in the biggest house with your kids wearing only name-brand clothing to be a successful parent. Those things are great, but they don’t compare to the love and affection a devoted mom brings.
So, the next time you’re feeling overwhelmed or not good enough, stop and take a deep breath. Remember that not every day is perfect, and that’s ok because you love your kids, and they are secure in that knowledge. Whenever thoughts of inadequacy creep in, say to yourself; I am strong. I am good enough. I am a super mom. Then look at the faces of the little humans you’re raising and realize those statements are true, and you’re doing an incredible job. Way to go, mama!
